Как лесбийките правят секс?


	Lesbians and Sex
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“…First, I have to ask myself if I’m ready. Then, I have to talk to my partner to find out whether she is ready. When we decide to make love, it will be a wonderful experience. Only we, both, can decide when it is the right time…”
“...You don’t have to do it only because someone attracts you physically. You have to be ready emotionally. It is important that both partners discuss what they like and dislike in sex. None of them should do anything for which she isn’t ready or dislikes. It isn’t necessary to force things. Everything comes with time…”

There is one funny question which people often ask me: “How lesbians make sex?” I’ve always thought that the most appropriate response is something of the sort: “Fantastically, thank you!” Before, I used to consider this question provocative. One of the questions which aim to embarrass or insult us. To confuse or enrage us. Later on, I’ve found out that this isn’t exactly the case and there are many men who consider that only the penis penetration in the vagina counts for sex. So, this placed the question “How lesbians make sex?” in a different light. So, I would allow myself to enlighten and educate those who think that sex is inevitably related to the penis. Most people have read that the main erotic center and sexual organ is the mind. Honestly, this is true…!
If you guys doubt that, try to have sex when you are exhausted or in the blues cause of a bad day. Trust me, it won’t be much of a fun, or satisfactory. But if you are in a good mood…when you celebrate, spend a vacation or have achieved a success, then things are quire different….right! So…the answer of the question “How lesbians make sex?” is very simple: Like all other people in the world!
And the sexual experience depends on the preferences of the coupe and the partners individually. Sex is a very individual and intimate experience and if anyone tells you how she exactly makes sex, her way won’t be suitable or preferred by everyone. Despite that there are some specifics…in many ways…all erogenous zones on the body…the ways to discover them…the use of one’s own body for stimulation….the use of the hands, the fingers…the lips and the face…the play with sexual toys…the stimulation of the fantasies and a bunch of other tricks…I thought of writing about them, but I gave up for understandable reasons.

It is a very serious decision whether to have sex with someone or not. You can feel a little worried or even scared by the thought of making love to a woman. This is normal. Most of us feel it all the time. And almost all have felt it the first time. In our society, women don’t feel embarrassed to talk about sex openly. But not the sex topics are important; what matters is the communication between you and your partner about what you like and dislike in sex, whether you are ready to do it, what kind of expectations you have from this experience, as well as one uncomfortable topic which should not be avoided- what health risks are there for any of you and what is your health status. There are many ways in which lesbians can make love to each other. We can give each other pleasure while kissing, hugging, caressing, stimulating each other with our tongues and hands, when we place fingers in one another, when we touch each other’s bodies, and everything else that our fantasy breeds. I’d like to underline that what lesbians do in bed is neither perverse nor disgusting. Most of all, what two people do by mutual consent and alone is only their business and no one has the right to judge them or call them names. And then, lesbians don’t do anything that heterosexuals don’t do themselves. Intimacy between lesbians is much more tender, ephemeral, and beautiful than the sex of the heterosexual couples.